The greatest problem of all, when it comes to broken relationships, may be the inability to change.
Every relationship you have has three levels:
- Spirit: is the first thing you “touch” in a relationship with another person.
- Soul: is made up of the intellect, will and emotions
- Body: if appropriate, a relationship enters the third level with appropriate touch
A general rule of thumb is: whatever dishonours another person usually closes their spirit.
Five Attitudes to Open a Person’s Spirit…
Attitude #1: Become soft & tender with the person.
Attitude #2: Understand what the other person has gone through
Attitude #3: Acknowledge the hurt and admit any wrongdoing
Attitude #4: Use gentle touch
Attitude #5: Seek forgiveness and wait for a reply
Forgiveness means to “release, set free, to untie.”