The greatest problem of all, when it comes to broken relationships, may be the inability to change.

Every relationship you have has three levels:

1. Spirit: is the first thing you “touch” in a relationship with another person.

2. Soul: is made up of the intellect, will and emotions

3. Body: if appropriate, a relationship enters the third level with appropriate touch

A general rule of thumb is: whatever dishonours another person usually closes their spirit.

Five Attitudes to Open a Person’s Spirit…

Attitude #1: Become soft & tender with the person.

Attitude #2: Understand what the other person has gone through

Attitude #3: Acknowledge the hurt and admit any wrongdoing

Attitude #4: Use gentle touch

Attitude #5: Seek forgiveness and wait for a reply

Forgiveness means to “release, set free, to untie.”